Hyper-independence is one of the most socially rewarded survival strategies on earth. People clap for it. Employers promote it. Churches call it “maturity.” Families depend on it. And because everyone benefits from your ability to carry everything without falling apart in public, nobody asks the one question that actually matters: Who taught you that you had to be this strong to be safe?
Because here is the uncomfortable truth: for many people, hyper-independence is not co
