Let's Heal Together!

When we crown our experiences as truth, we quietly put God on trial. We judge His character through the lens of our disappointment. We measure His faithfulness by how predictable He’s been. And then we wonder why our faith feels fragile and our emotions feel chaotic.

Let’s bring this into real life. Misalignment isn’t only about missing God’s will. It’s about the emotional storms we start experiencing when we’re functioning out of fear, self-protection, unresolved trauma, or assumptions instead of truth.

Let me say this with all the love, authority, and Holy Spirit fire in me: God may be quiet, but He’s not careless. Don’t let your feelings lie to you. His silence is not neglect — it’s strategy.

It’s when you slap a Bible verse on top of a deep wound and call it “trusting God.”It’s when you tell yourself you’ve “forgiven and moved on,” but you can’t stand to hear that person’s name. It’s when you keep saying “God’s got it” — but your chest tightens every time the memory resurfaces.

You know exactly who you are. You’re the dependable one. The go-to. The “you got this” friend. The one who holds it all together when everyone else is coming unglued. You pray for people when they’re falling apart — and then go cry in your car afterward because you can’t even remember the last time someone asked you if you were okay.

So, let’s talk about how to actually survive when life feels upside down—when you’re trusting God, but your emotions are bouncing from faith to fear to frustration and back again like an Olympic gymnast.

If you’ve found yourself staring at the ceiling at 2 a.m. thinking, “Lord, how do I keep my sanity in all this?” — you’re not alone. The swirl of chaos is designed to steal your peace, distract your mind, and drain your emotional capacity.

Basically, faith-aligned decisions save you from messy detours—and you don’t end up crying in your car over something God never told you to choose in the first place.

Overthinking convinces you that running every possible scenario will protect you. But here’s the truth: all it really does is keep you stuck, create false narratives that don’t even exist, and rob you of peace. It’s like paying rent in a house you don’t even live in.