Let's Heal Together!

Because here is what nobody wants to say at Bible study: sometimes the hardest seasons are not the ones where God feels absent. Sometimes the hardest seasons are the ones where you can see exactly what He is doing and you just cannot see the end of it yet. And the waiting starts exposing every coping mechanism you were convinced you had already dismantled.

I'm going to say this plainly, because clarity is kindness: God never assigned your coping mechanisms a name tag and called them “you.” You did that — and understandably so. Survival has a way of convincing us that whatever kept us intact must also be who we are meant to be.

So if “God as Father” makes you uncomfortable, guarded, or quietly skeptical… take a breath. That’s not rebellion. That’s history talking. And no, pretending you don’t feel that way hasn’t actually healed anything yet. (Ask me how I know... 😌)

Overthinking convinces you that running every possible scenario will protect you. But here’s the truth: all it really does is keep you stuck, create false narratives that don’t even exist, and rob you of peace. It’s like paying rent in a house you don’t even live in.